Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Careless People

You know some people are real careless and it's to bad. I tried to help him out the best way I could, it blew up in my face. I can't do anything, someone wants to tell him what to do then thats his problem, if the girl is more important than his boys then he's going to be the one to lose out and regret it in end. Hope he realizes that. They are old enough to make their own choices and to see whats going on. Two weeks without calling his kids. He says he wants to see them, but hasn't tried cuz some bitch won't let him. No man would ever come between my kids and me. It's ok for her to see hers though. One day he will realize when it's too late. It may already be too late. Who knows...I can drag him through the mud, but I don't he is my kids father. Although he don't care what he does to us why should I care what happends to him...I guess that makes me the better person...one day I just hope he grows up for the sake of his kids, and be a real father. 5/18/08- Yeah finally the asshole calls his kids. Called yesterday Dylan was here to talk but Danny wasn't & Dylan told him to call back to talk to him at 2:30. He never did so we'll see how long it takes him to call Danny...Danny tried calling tonite but there was no answer either place. Never did call...He asked Dylan yesterday when his next hockey game was and He said he didn't know if he'd be out of work in time...we will soon see.5/19 I knew it and pretty sad Dylan knew it too. His father never showed up for his game. Lets see now how long it takes before he calls them agaain...


June 1,  Finally the boys get to talk to their dad. THEY had to call him though! He called twice last week and never once asked to talk to them. Then he has the nurve to ask why they didn't call yesterday to tell him about their games...the phone works both ways...he's asking if he can finally see them. I told him we would think about it. He didn't even want to talk to me...LOL I'll just wait and see if I get support or not. The boys didn't really want to call him at first they said NO earlier today. They decided to at bedtime. Danny didn't talk much he passed the phone off to Dylan. Danny didn't even say bye to him. He's pissed at him and I don't blame him. Dylan still doesn't really understand anyway. Well we'll see if he talks to me about taking them or if he calls them at all this week...


June 9- well matt finally returned my call tonight. Of course he never called to see the kids on Sun. like he wanted too. Left him a mess. of the kids games on sat...course never came...He said what you expect me to do drop what I am doing to go to the game...well if I didn't see my kids since april...yeah...but instead he'd rather drive around in the chevelle...well looks like it's court time, for support, the only way I am going to get anywhere with him. He don't care why should I...He knows about this weekends games...lets see if he shows up...


June 14 He finally showed up to the kids game today. 1st game he came to and it was the last game of the season...go figure, this was the 1st time he seen them since April...asked him if he was going to come and see them tomorrow considering it was Fathers Day...he said maybe if he does it will have to be later in the afternoon cuz he was going to a car show with the chevelle. I said whatever...thought he'd want to see them seeing how it was Fathers Day! Thats Matt for ya, better things to do...


Fathers Day...yup my kids hung out with Pete cuz their father never called them, nor did he see them...I called him at 6 pm wondering what was going on. He wasn't doing anything of course, but you think he's want to see them considering it was his day, and thats what I mean when I said Happy Fathers Day to all those wonderful fathers that actually take the time for there kids...


June 22 Yup another day gone by kids tried calling. Never called back. Never went to their playoff games Thur. or Fri. said he had to work...Just another day they are going to careless...


Finally!


Sept 15 The boys have been seeing their father alot more often now. This is been going on since like July. Now hockey season has started he will see them every weekend. All I have to say it's about time. Now lets wait and see if he smartens up!...LOL.....